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Your TRUE "Net Worth"

9/22/2014

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"Then he said to them, "Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions."" ~Luke 12:15 (NIV)

Assets

For those of us who work for an employer, at the end of the year we are often given a snap shot of our total annual wages. It's not uncommon for employees to only consider the net wages they have been paid as having value.  That is the part we want to see increase and the part we protect with as much care and attention we can afford.  But some employers, when recapping the wages paid to its employees, will also include the cost of the benefits paid on behalf of the employee.  These benefits, over the course of a year can potentially double the look of an individual’s salary and wages. 

For the insightful and the wise, it's always necessary to consider the total benefits of a situation, not only the cash pay out. The narrow-minded will certainly argue that money is the greatest asset in the world today.  But even if the rest of us agree with this theory, it must be analyzed that any benefit, tool, or skill that can be used to either make money or save money is the SAME AS possessing money.  It’s called an asset. Therefore, The people and things that help you generate and/or save money are valuable assets.

But what about the things that money can't buy like Love, peace, and joy? Your home may not be the biggest, but if it is filled with Love, you have a priceless asset. Your career may not be the best paying, but if it brings you joy, you have a great asset. If you have a relationship bathed in peace, you have a valuable asset indeed! Treat these as you would your income or bank account! Pay attention to them, protect them, and manage them well.

Deposits

When a person dies, society often want's to calculate their net worth, not realizing that life's "net worth" can not be measured solely by our material and financial gain. The deposits or contributions we make into the lives of others also increases our value in life and relationships.

I recently watched a video tribute to a deceased woman who was praised as beloved by many. Everything I saw of her life consisted of what she had gained materially. I never saw photo's highlighting her service and gifts to others, only her glamorous trek to "the top." This doesn't mean that she had not served or given much, but I felt sad that the only thing her friends and family chose to highlight about her life was her material gain.

Our GAIN is not the only measure of our true net worth, even in terms of Love, peace, and joy. Our ability and willingness to GIVE financially, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally into the lives of others speaks volumes about how large we are and have been in life. 


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Why not stop right now, on this fresh Monday morning, and take inventory of how well you are doing in the asset and deposit departments? If you look past the dollars and cents, you could find that you are wealthier than you think!  
You are the Love you give AND receive; you are the peace you partake of AND extend to others; you are the joy you share AND accept; your gifts and passions have value in EVERY sphere of life; your life holds more than a one dimensional "benefit"..... so LIVE LIKE IT! 

Blessings,

Dawn~
~Pouring my life out in worship, like Costly Oil~
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Calling All Women of God!

9/15/2014

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"Blessed is she who believed" ~Luke 1:45
Are you a Woman of God? 

This past Saturday I experienced a Living Proof Live simulcast with Beth Moore for the first time, and I was blessed beyond words! Joining an estimated 190,000 other women attendees and remote viewers, we worshiped and praised God, and were encouraged on how to "do womanhood well." Just typing these words makes my heart skip a beat!

One of the things she gave us, and I will post the link to her blog so that you can print your own copy, is a work of poetry that I would like to share with my loyal and dedicated readers. It is titled "Identity Declaration." As she urged us, if you are a Woman of God I also urge you to commit this to memory so that you may encourage yourself on those days when:
  • you look in the mirror and beauty is not what you feel
  • you have been overlooked by employer or friend
  • you have tried to go back to school for the last time
  • you have been comparing yourself to other moms
  • you have been betrayed by the man you love
  • you lost the big contract you were praying for
  • you are afraid to challenge the purity of your relationships

Whenever you can't find the courage and confidence to "woman-up," recall the words of this declaration written by Beth Moore.....
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Identity Declaration is the intellectual property of Beth Moore and Living Proof Ministries. All Rights Reserved.
Please go to www.blog.lproof.org for a printable version of the Identity Declaration, and many other resources relating to the Living Proof Live 2014 Simulcast and Living Proof Ministries by Beth Moore.

Blessings,
Dawn~
~Pouring my life out in worship, like Costly Oil~

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R.E.A.L.* Moment Monday

9/1/2014

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Happy Labor Day!

Have you labored in LOVE this year??
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"For God is not unjust to forget your work and labor of love which you have shown toward His name, in that you have ministered to the saints, and do." ~Hebrews 6:10 (NKJV)
Today is Labor Day. It is our national day to set aside from all of our hard work at earning a living, and relax, reflect, and renew. And hopefully to give thanks.

But this Labor Day, I found myself thinking about the above Bible verse, and I started wondering about Relationships Ever Abiding in Love. 

The word Labor means: "work, especially hard physical work."

I often hear people say that the word LOVE is over used. I agree, but I tend to be one of the ones who use the word often. I use it often because I am a word person, a verbal communicator. I always need to say what needs to be said. But do I back it up with action? In the focus verse above, Love is not just action, but is referred to as work, especially hard...work.

So my question to each of us on this Labor Day 2014 is this: Have you labored in Love this year? Think about how hard you may have worked in your yard this past Spring and Summer. What about remodeling projects around the house? Vehicle repairs or upgrades anyone? My job is very physical, and I feel the effects daily. I work very hard, and in a variety of ways, to keep my family fed, housed, and comfortable. This is truly a labor of love; but, can I think back to any relationships or service efforts that I have labored in equally as hard...or greater?

How about you? Which relationships would be infinitely fully, richer, purer if hard work were to be added? Where do you think God would be pleased and reward you for your work of service to His people, the poor, the lost?

The next time You feel God leading you to "work" at a relationship, or to serve others, why not avoid taking the easy route? Why not instead purpose to work hard at it...let them see you sweat!


Happy Labor Day,
Dawn~
~Pouring my life out in worship, like Costly Oil~
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